Learning to love yourself

Learning to love yourself

…and if by chance, that special place, That you’ve been dreaming of. Leads you to a lonely place… Find your strength in love… The other night as I was lying in bed these beautiful words started flowing into my head… I have always known...
Finding a life partner

Finding a life partner

Sometimes we think that finding a life partner will solve a lot of our problems…and in fact it probably will momentarily…but what will come in it’s place… Yes sure, having a man or woman in your life might mean you don’t have to eat...
Why do we have to experience pain

Why do we have to experience pain

It can be difficult sometimes to accept that life comes with pain. But pain is a very real and wonderful part of our existence. In fact it’s not pain that causes us the most amount of distress, its suffering which is prolonging and overindulging in the pain...
How to give up without giving in

How to give up without giving in

We’ve all heard the sayings “don’t give up”, “never quit”, “don’t pack it in just before you reap it in (ok I just made that one up) but you’ve no doubt heard something similar. I have certainly heard myself and...
Avoid hurt

Avoid hurt

Today I was watering my grass. Something I love to do each and every day, as it brings me peace and calm as I watch the water slowly falling over my nicely manicured lawn (of course, there are days I have to look past the clearly UN-manicured lawn), but no matter...